Creating a Home Together

Many human relationships are like the interlocking fingers of two hands.  Our loneliness makes us cling to each other, and this mutual clinging makes us suffer immensely because it does not take our loneliness away.  But the harder we try, the more desperate we become.  Many of these "interlocking" relationships fall apart because they become suffocating and oppressive.   Human relationships are meant to be like two hands folded together.  They can move away from each other while still touching with the fingertips.  They can create space between themselves, a little tent, a home, a safe place to be.   

True relationships among people point to God.  They are like prayers in the world.  Sometimes the hands that pray are fully touching, sometimes there is distance between them.  They always move to and from each other, but they never lose touch. They keep praying to the One who brought them together.

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Loneliness can really make people depressed. In the past, I might keep mourning and even crying when I felt lonely. Loneliness is not equivalent to solitude. Loneliness is about the lack of real connection with people around. When we feel detached with people who once we had connected with, the sense of loneliness just grown so hard in one's mind and heart. Let's learn how to point to God in each of our relationship.